I jumped on you pretty hard, because I sincerely believe that an act like that CAN have terrible effect on a woman. Her privacy was invaded, and because of the internet, and her good looks,it became a BIG deal, and it may have been unbearable for her and that must have been hell. It's possible that she will recover, if she truly is so affected, but it is also possible that she will never feel comfortable again in situations where she USED to feel safe and protected.

I know you are one to take things seriously, and I appreciate your rethinking this topic.

I guess where I stand is a place where I was raised to respect women, to honor them and be a protector, all that old fashioned stuff and the sign of what it means to be a man. I may take it to extremes, and I'm not perfect for sure, but I do care about retaining the pride that comes from standing for something